When you want to criticize others, be sure to think first whether you are perfect.

Yeh. I heard and I am still hearing friends complaining, criticizing other people. They talk about others as if they are perfect. Sometimes, I wonder whether he also talks about me, criticizes me when having a conversation with other people, at my back of course. And, he definitely gives me no chance to hear about it. Very unfair is it not? Sometimes, I feel like telling him that he is what he is talking about others.

The most obvious occassion in my social circle, an acquaintance (I better do not call him friend) used to say how bad so and so in his karaoke singing. "Out of key..."; "No tempo....."; "Sing like a cow...." and so on. For all that you would like to know, I never saw him going up to the stage, pick up the mic and sing!